What is
Multiple sclerosis
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sites
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understand MS
When Someone you know
is diagnosed with Multiple
Sclerosis, these links have
Great Information that You
should know. So that you
can understand what we
deal with everyday. The
more you know the more
you can understand and be
more supportive.
I have started many Support Groups
Online. I have talked to many other
people diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis.
AND
Here is What We Need You To
Know...

After someone is diagnosed they go
through many phases of emotions. It's
like going through a grieving process

There can be five stages of grief). These
reactions might not occur in a specific
order, and can (at times) occur together.
Not everyone experiences all of these
emotions:

- Denial, disbelief, numbness
- Anger, blaming others
- Bargaining (for instance "If I am cured
of this cancer, I will never smoke again.")
- Depressed mood, sadness, and crying
- Acceptance, coming to terms
(copied from MedlinePlus.com)


It is important to understand that these
processes can take many months. When
symptoms slow down the grieving usually
goes away but every time we flare up
the grieving process starts all over.

The importance of understanding this is
because usually when the grieving is
going on we tend to pull away from
"people". When a Flare up or
exacerbation is happening it takes
everything out of us and the little bit of
strength we have left needs to be put
into focusing on getting through it.
Most of the people I have talked to in the
support groups have said that one of the
saddest things they have gone through
since being diagnosed is the loss of family
and friends. This is usually due to not
understanding what MS is and what it
does. At the same time due to the
symptoms we have, we can not do all
the same things we used to do. Or at
least maybe not at the same capacity.
We need everyone in our lives to
understand what MS is. It is hard enough
having this disease but not having people
who support us and understand us
makes life even worse and even harder to
deal with.
"When we say we can't do
Something"
A GREAT way to understand
our symptoms
Multiple Sclerosis has a lot
of
"INVISIBLE SYMPTOMS"
The problem with that is it
is very hard for other's to
see what all we are going
through.

Due to those "Invisible
Symptoms" we tend to be
treated like there isn't
anything wrong with us.

The best things you can do
to support someone with
Multiple Sclerosis is:

-Learn about the symptoms

-Don't criticize and put us
down

- Know that stress makes
symptoms worse
-Be supportive

-Understand that WE try to
do as much as we can. We
are not being lazy!!

- It takes time sometimes
years for the Doctors to get
the medications right so
that we can start having
good days. It will happen!!

- Know that there is NO
cure for MS

- Understand that the
medications we take are
only to try to help with
some of the symptoms

-Understand that the shots
we take are the only MS
medication that specifically
helps but does not treat the
symptoms only the damage
that is being done to us so
it hopefully won't become
permanent damage.

And most of all... Try to
imagine living day to day
not knowing what
symptoms you will wake up
to and how long they will
last.
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